Supplies Black altar cloth Scrying mirror or bowl of water Four white pillar candles for the four quarters One gold taper candle for the God One silver taper candle for the Goddess One black candle Natural bowl (shell, horn, seed pod, etc) Slice of bread Apple cider Any ritual tools you normally use Most would usually wear black during this rite
Cleanse the space and cast the circle.
Lighting their candles, call the elements:
"I call upon the spirits of the North, that they join my Circle and bring word of the dead, and take my words to them! Welcome, spirits of Air!
I call upon the spirits of the East, that they join my Circle and bring the comfort of the Earth, the flesh of the Mother, to which we all return. Welcome spirits of Earth!
I call upon the spirits of the South, that they join my Circle, bringing purification, that my soul learns from the trials and joys of life. Welcome, spirits of Fire!
I call upon the spirits of the West, that they join my Circle and bring peace, that I may take comfort in the Cycle. Welcome, spirits of Water!"
Call down God and Goddess.
Light the Goddess candle, saying:
"Lady, may your love shine upon us in bounty and in loss."
Light the God candle, saying:
"Lord, though extinguished for a time, your light will return to us!"
Extinguish the God candle, saying:
"I mourn and celebrate the death of the God. For the Light is now short, yet our harvest is great, and the light will rekindle again, the Cycle begin anew in Nature. I take comfort also in knowing that no soul is lost or forsaken on the Wheel. Blessed be your rest, Lord."
Sit in the circle with the bowl (or mirror) before you, the candle behind it, unlit. Have the slice of bread beside you to the left, and the drink to the right.
Pick up the bread and tear off a small piece, dipping it into the drink. Say something like:
"I offer this sustenance to those who have passed before me, this bread of the earth and air, and this drink of the water and fire. With the union of the two, they become whole and I offer it to my ancestors, to the Gods and Goddesses who would have it."
Place the bread in the natural bowl, taking a moment to contemplate who has passed on that would come to take some of the food you have offered. Once done, pick up the black candle and light it, saying something like:
"I light this candle as a lantern to guide those who have passed before me. I welcome them to this rite so long as they offer good will to it. Negativity will be turned away, positive energies will be welcomed. With this candle, I illuminate the circle as a beacon to those who have passed that I love and cherish."
Set the candle down behind the bowl of water (or mirror). Stare into the water, preferably at an angle so you can see the flame of the candle dancing on the surface of the water. Let your mind go and concentrate on meeting up and connecting with those that have died before you that you wish to contact. Be they pets, persons, or Deities, concentrate on connecting to those that have gone on, and ask them for guidance, or ask them whatever you like.
Take as long as you like on this part of the ritual, for it should not be rushed.
When done, lift up the bread and take one more piece, dipping it into the drink. Say something like:
"I offer more of the food that sustains me, soaking up some drink to quench the thirst of the thirsty. Thank you for coming to me, sharing in your wisdom, guidance, and company."
Set this piece in the natural bowl with the other one. Share in with the meal by eating the bread and drinking the cider that you have beside you.
When this is done, dismiss the deities and all others you have called and close the circle. Ground and center.